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Get Your Ex Back - 5 Things That Will Wreck Your Chances

Written by bmlengel on October 15th, 2009

If you can’t quite come to terms with your recent split and are suffering. Here are a few things you can’t do if you want to get your ex back. Most people will end up doing one or the other of these simply because they know no different.

1 - Do not lie about your ex

You will ruin any chance you have of getting together again with this one. Put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would cope with your ex telling everyone lies about you. I certainly wouldn’t like it. If that happened to me there’s no way I’m getting back with my ex.

2 - Getting your ex to be a bit jealous

Now, this can work to your advantage under certain circumstances. But it won’t work when you’ve just broke up and you are clearly in bits and they know you will try anything to get your ex back. This can go wrong in a big way. You try for jealousy and you get disgust and them deciding that it was a good decision to split.

3 - Stalking your ex

We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. The best you can hope for is to be seen as desperate and needy. That doesn’t help you at all. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.

4 - Getting revenge on your ex

Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? If you are prepared to do the dirty on them in any way at all you can’t really love them as much as you think. If you love someone you wouldn’t hurt them.

5 - Text pest

Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. You could seriously drive your ex round the bend with this text torture. The last thing you want is to be seen as a text pest. They may just ignore your calls but they may take it further and change their number. Then you’ve lost them forever.

You now know a few things to avoid doing if you have desires to get your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them

Take a bit of advice and spend some time getting yourself in the right frame of mind to move forward with your plan. Get your head in shape and you have a far better chance of getting your ex back.

When I split & wanted to get my wife back I turned to a step by step system that was so easy to follow a child could have done it.

Getting your ex back should be your choice, and not left to fate.

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